Keeping secrets

Keeping secrets

Ill keep your secrets even if we aren’t friends, I always thought it was not just the decent thing to do but the normal thing. Recently, I learnt of an ex friend going out of her way to find a guy I had been with and attempting to not only shag him but slander me. [...]

Friend or Frenemy?

Friend or Frenemy?

I knew a girl once who always made me feel like we were competing and it was pretty shitty feeling, everything that happened in our friendship made me question if we were really even friends. Often its the small things that we continue to excuse that turn into big monsters in our heads.   Friends [...]

How do we relate to our friends with kids and the ones without?

How do we relate to our friends with kids and the ones without?

Friendships come in waves, more often then not we don't stay in touch with friends from high school and work friends are great while you work with them. The friends you make in your twenties are often for life or for a season, enter your thirties and they're split into two groups - the friends [...]

The Bucket list by 30 – how to deal when you don’t reach it.

The Bucket list by 30 – how to deal when you don’t reach it.

Turning thirty is a pretty big deal and i personally don't know why we put more pressure on ourselves to accomplish all these grand things by thirty, when surviving your twenties is hard enough and reason enough to celebrate the next decade. With COVID19 taking the year of 2020 away from us, it is pretty [...]